Today will be the 2nd time I had such a big argument with my mom. There are so big that it usually makes her so sad and depressive. And I just don’t know what do about it. Am I being worst son ever of the 21st century of something? In the Asian culture, adult always have the last word no matter what, no matter when and no matter how... As for as I am concerned, I only believe in what is right and wrong.
In a conflict, people always think they’re right and its counterparts are naturally wrong. But the real deal is sometimes; people are both right… sometimes they are both wrong and sometimes, one is at least right in this whole damn thing… But what do you in the situation where both believe they’re right? Do you fight your own argument until you prevail? Speak up and make someone’s life miserable?
What happens when 2 unstoppable forces collide? Well, as for us… It’s a never-ending escalation that will make both our lives miserable.
This is what I’ve learned. You have to forget about who’s right or wrong… but rather WHAT is right or wrong.
Even though god knows you’re right and he agrees with you, you will always take the wrong decision by letting things get bad to worst… Especially if you are both related to each other.
Don't be so sad! There's no wrong or right between you and your mom. You love each other so much,right? Think about something cheerful.
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